[LMB] Cordelia, was Elli, sherwooding

[Tzivia Adler]

 > I am bringing up a child (well, two) in a foreign culture that is much 
> less different from my own than Barrayar is from Beta. The influence of 
> parents is much less than that of the whole outside world, I am sorry to 
> say. And Cordelia is in a mixed marriage with heavy pressure on her son 
> to conform to the local mores because of his social position. Could 
> there have been any way she could have made him not army mad? I don't 
> believe so.
> 
 > 
> Agnes
> 

might one ask what is your own culture, and where are you now?