[LMB] Re: Slash (was OT) now Bujold Romance/Slash Meta

[Paula Lieberman]

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From: "Lois McMaster Bujold" <lbujold at myinfmail.com>


> Marna Nightingale marna at marna.ca
> Wed Jan 3 07:30:19 GMT 2007

>     The problem only comes with hypocritical reactions: persons who 
> want to control other people's behavior but not their own; or, more 
> interestingly -- is there a word for this? -- people who want to control 

"control freak"

> other people's behavior as a *part* of controlling their own.  The 
> latter is not hypocrisy, it's something else.  Is there a word for it?  
> "Prudery" doesn't quite cover it.  This is the one part where the 
> concept of "status emergency" might actually impinge.