[LMB] [SPAM?] Re: OT: stalkers

[Elizabeth Holden]

> martinsgill at gmail.com writes:
> 
> I just wonder if the ladies on this list could
> answer that... how  many times have you said no 
> to a guy ( a brush off, or ignoring him  would
> also count as a "no") who you then ended up going
> out with or  even marrying? 

Never. If I say 'no' it means 'no'. 

Now, I might change my mind at some point later, or
circumstances might change, but it does mean 'no' and
asking me again within, say, six months, would
probably be a bad idea because I'd think you were an
annoying pest.

namaste,
Elizabeth