[LMB] [SPAM?] Re: OT: stalkers

[Azalais Aranxta]

On Thu, 24 May 2007, Elizabeth Holden wrote:

> I'm not always sure what flirting is.  I always thought I never
> flirted, but one day a friend told me I was the best flirt he'd
> ever met, and he said I flirted with everyone I met, all the
> time. To which I could only wonder: "That's flirting?"
>
> After thinking about it, I concluded that what he meant was
> that I tend to give my full attention to those I am talking to.
> Or try to do so, anyway. Which is also a perceived attribute of
> flirting.

Yeah--I do that, and while it's not so much of a problem now that
I'm in my 40s and plus size, when I was a fannish teenage and
twentysomething girl who was definitely what was considered
"hot" (not that I knew it) I had guys assume I wouldn't be
talking to them and paying full attention if I wasn't interested
in them, which was scary and wildly disconcerting, particularly
since I never could quite figure out how we got from Doctor Who
to your place or mine.

> I'd say: presenting yourself the way you actually are is a good
> approach to being an honest and decent human being.
>
> The obnoxious idiots of the world usually aren't very good at
> hiding their nature anyway.  (This also does not apply to
> anyone here.)

I totally agree :)

~malfoy :)

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