[LMB] Women and the Warrior's Path

Natali Vilic natali.vilic at zd.t-com.hr
Thu Jan 29 23:55:56 GMT 2009

Personally, I will never understand why would anyone want to be a soldier. 
Or warrior, whatever. 
But, obviously there are people, regardless of gender, who want that.
So, OK.
It is sadly still necessary to have people skilled to efficiently take
as we are living in this world as it is. I cannot think of any reason for
letting those who want that, again regardless of gender or any other thing,
to do it. 
If that is what they most want to do with their lives, they will probably
all the necessary skills fast and successfully, thus making their training
the most efficient possible. 

Personally again, I think my daughter would make a much more efficient
than my older son, but perhaps not as an efficient one as my younger son. I 
conclude this from their characters and statures. However, I am doing my
best to keep the idea as unappealing to those two as possible:). But again, 
if either my daughter or my younger son would decide for such an occupation 
my former efforts were futile and I will leave it be. 

As for rape in war... Someone wrote in this not so long but very difficult 
tread, that in the recent history one could see an example of using rape and

involuntarily pregnancy as weapons against enemy women in Serbia. 
Me being from the area in question (luckily always at least an inch behind 
the first lines, on the friendly territory) I must correct this. There were
such things happening in Serbia, because there was no war *in* Serbia
for the NATO bombers on the end of the whole dirty business). The actions 
described took place in the occupied areas of Croatia, and Bosnia, mainly by

the Serb soldiers and militia. I am pretty sure that in Bosnia, where three 
nations fought against each other, there were such things happening on the 
all three sides. But not in Serbia.
And another thing: I think that if the sexual limitations for women, and all

that pressure to keep "pure", were not invented by men in order to maintain 
inheritance through the male line, it would never happen that rape would
be considered as a weapon of war. The saddest thing is, that it is actually 
directed against men, to damage their property. And the rape of men is just 
to designate them as women - less valuable.

All the contemplation about how things were, and why the things were so,
not make injustice justifiable. To me, it is just looking for excuses for
the horrible things people were, are and will be able to do to each other on

physical, spiritual, emotional, economical, sociological or any other level 
one can (or cannot) think about.

That reminds me of that great paragraph of SOH:
"The really unforgivable acts are committed by calm men in beautiful green
rooms, who deal death wholesale, by the shipload, __without lust, or anger,
desire, or any redeeming emotion to excuse them but cold fear of some 
pretended future. But the crimes they hope to prevent in that future are 
imaginary. The ones they commit in the present-they are real.__"   

Now, what great fears and horrors did women present to men, to treat them so

And to spend so much time and effort in creating theories that could sound 
reasonable in their twisted way, to justify this.

Wondering how she will go asleep now

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