[LMB] The Koudelkas

Harimad harimad2001 at yahoo.com
Thu Feb 16 15:25:46 GMT 2012

--- On Wed, 2/8/12, Paula Lieberman <paal at gis.net> wrote:
> Based on his history of not bothering
> to pay attention to social niceties and rules regarding
> treatment of women he was interested in.... his marriage
> proposals to Koudelkas and Donna who was becoming Dono, were
> marvels of selfishness and lack of -bothering- to notice
> reality/pay attention.  His treatment of Elli Quin was
> a marvel of not bothering to pay attention and bad
> manners/rudeness. Etc.

Do you judge everyone by what ze did as a 20 year old, and never allow zir to improve?

That someone is rude means he's rude, it doesn't mean he's going to cheat.

- Harimad

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