[LMB] Tea Party

brazee howard at brazee.net
Sun Sep 12 16:13:01 BST 2021



> On Sep 12, 2021, at 7:36 AM, Louann Miller <domelouann at gmail.com> wrote:
> 
> It's funny how my mind works. I certainly don't pass judgment on the other
> people in Zoom by their looks; I enjoy seeing the variety of us. It feels
> friendly. But somehow, based on no evidence, my hindbrain is convinced that
> I and I alone look horrible on video and will naturally attract judgment. I
> should probably think more about this. Husband who uses Zoom several times
> a day for work says that it's actually a very common reaction.

It’s not my looks that bother me, it’s my voice.   There’s a big difference on how my voice sounds from within my body and from outside.


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