[LMB] Re: Ekaterin's custody problem

margali mtraber251 at earthlink.net
Tue, 25 Nov 2003 17:29:23 -0500

we have state troopers here, and the resident trooper lives about a mile 
from the house=) he is aware and has been given a photo of the idiot=)

and i dont mind discussing it=) i have actualy gotten someone here out 
of an abusive marriage, and i still get embarrassed heartily when she 
drags people over and  introduces me to them as the person who saved her 

Marna Nightingale wrote:

> margali wrote:
>>Made me glad he finally attacked me in a public enough situation that i could get a restraining
>>order against him, and have a real life again.
> What a lovely thing to need to be grateful for, eh? :-/
> I hear ya. 
> Don't know if this is useful, or if you've already done it, but when
> R. got a restraining order against her ex she went down to the police
> station, saw someone in Domestic[1] (if you're in a small town, that
> might be the desk seargent, but most forces try to have someone with
> some special training these days) and started a file with them, just
> basically made sure they knew that she had a problem and that she had
> a restraining order. 

> I know it can be hard to lose the habit of Never Talking About It, but
> it's worth it.