[LMB] Re: OT: Babies

Marna Nightingale marna at marna.ca
Sat, 29 Nov 2003 01:05:30 -0500


CatMtn at aol.com wrote:
> 
> Marna writes:
> OTOH, I know more than one woman who has very sensibly decided to have
> a tubal after two or three kids -- these are women with very full
> houses, sometimes all bio kids, sometimes bio and step, sometimes bio,
> step and adopted -- and been totally sure that it was the right choice
> -- and then cried bitterly for DAYS when the last baby began to walk.
> M replies:
> 
> Are you sure _why_ they were crying?  

Oh, yes.  Two of them said so, very clearly. Not _regrets_, but very
definitely _grief_ . 

Marna.