[LMB] OT: physique, was PEN Penic's Demon Section One Discussion
aruvqan at gmail.com
Sun Jan 24 18:14:57 GMT 2016
I like [in no particular order *after* personality [what? you have to
actually like the person and they have to like you and there needs to be
mutual respect.]] eyes, voice, ass, bearing [confident, comfortable,
nonegotestical, though personality is a part of bearing.] I can put up
with someone that is not in the peak of physical perfection - so few
people actually are. What most women respond to is actually the
personality and bearing rather than looking for physical perfection.
Though we don't want slobs [and bears are not slobs, they are simply a
large frame with body hair.]
I know I have dated a moderately wide range of physical types ranging
from slender and androgynous to bearish [Rob was very furry and though
only 5'7" very solidly muscular] from short [Keith at 5'2" and
androgynous] to tall [Don at 6'5" and a Navy SEAL but not a bear.] What
attracted me to all of them was the air of confidence, comfort in their
bodies and an open respectful treatment of women. I guess a sense of
humor is also a component, nobody likes a Debbie Downer all the time.
On 1/24/2016 12:56 PM, Lois McMaster Bujold wrote:
> LMB: This article was apparently put together by some fitness guys,
> interested in selling their services, hence their very narrow focus.
> Also the torsos. An infomercial of sorts. But really even with that,
> the very questions they asked totally missed what (most) women are
> interested in. But, I suspect, really picked up what (most) men are
> interested in.
This email has been checked for viruses by Avast antivirus software.
More information about the Lois-Bujold