[LMB] Betan population control

Eric Oppen ravenclaweric at gmail.com
Sun Jun 9 03:33:03 BST 2019

People in metro areas also routinely underestimate how difficult it can be
to leave depressed rural areas.  I wanted very much to relocate, but I
didn't have the money, didn't know where to go, didn't know what to apply
for, and after a few years, found that I had "Damaged Goods" permanently
stamped on my forehead like the mark of Cain.

People say "Pound the pavement and you'll get a job!"  The problem is, jobs
are very tight around here---and after a hundred or so failed attempts, I
think even Pollyanna would be discouraged (and I have never been mistaken
for her.)   And people will not tell me what is wrong!  If I knew what was
wrong, I could at least try to change it, but all I get is "we found
someone we liked better."  I'm hard-working, diligent, on time every day if
at all possible, don't goof off, don't steal, don't backtalk my
employers...and I can't get a job to save my life!

People say "Well, I'd like to hire you but you're over-qualified."  Look,
geniuses, I know my own qualifications.  When I need a job, I need a job,
not a bunch of hypocritical babble about how this job isn't "good enough"
for me!  I'll be the judge of that, thank you very much!  And, yes, if I
get a better offer I might leave.  So WHAT?  I THOUGHT I was applying for a
job, not proposing marriage or offering to swear lifetime fealty!

On Sat, Jun 8, 2019 at 2:59 PM Howard Brazee <howard at brazee.net> wrote:

> > On Jun 8, 2019, at 12:38 PM, Joel Polowin <jpolowin at hotmail.com> wrote:
> >
> > The validity of that argument depends very much on the truth of the
> > premise "you *can* change these things".  It is often not true at
> > all... or at least the person making that argument doesn't grasp that it
> > may be extremely difficult / expensive / otherwise beyond the ability
> > of the other person to accomplish.  It may be technically feasible,
> > but effectively impossible in practise.
> We often discount the personality and/or psychological characteristics
> that make someone unable to change things.    We recognize extremes, as
> when someone’s problems get diagnosed with a label.  But way too often,
> when someone’s disability is not extreme, we just call it weakness (but not
> weak enough to not put them down).
> When someone’s IQ is 71 and when his IQ is 69 is not significant—except
> for public opinion which condemns the first as being stupid, and feeling
> sorry for the 2nd for being retarded.
> When someone doesn’t quite have the “gumption” we have, we condemn their
> weakness.   Or their willingness to work, or to be nice.
> But any program to make society better needs to recognize that we have
> wide spectra of abilities and results.
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